Tiny umbrellas in fruity alcoholic drinks

21st .. it's about 3 months away
and as it's point no. 33 on the last list I shall ever make obsessivly I thought I'd think about it.
The only thing I have down for definate is cocktails at Island Bar on the Saturday night & booking off Sunday to go for lunch or some nice meal before everyone goes home to Derby/Notts etc.
I'm not sure wether to just dress nice and if so I like these options:


the playsuit from Urban Outfitters I was going to include was gone :( along with the 3/4 sleeve swing dress from Topshop .. meow! but I like these two options so far anyway.

or to dress up
Sailor / Navy / Millitary - a broad range for everyone
in that case more like this:


or just a basic 50's theme:


the swing dress with a white petticoat
waist belt for both & flower in hair probably with a fur coat and some sort of clutch & leather gloves.

I love the shoes so much I want them either way with any theme/outfit

I have come to realise I am hopless at romance and less of a hopless romantic... maybe more helpless romantic.